...Wisdom: The Art of Living Well...Pastor Phil Strong

 

The Simple, the Young and the Wise

6-27-10

Text: Proverbs 1:1-7

● Proverbs presents wisdom (literary style) to us in such a way that it is easily accessible and recollected; like a commercial jingle (i.e. “And like a good neighbor ..” or, “Give me a break, give me a break, break me off a piece of that …”) They are structured to be remembered.

Proverbs is “Wisdom for Dummies”.

            Don’t co-sign for a loan, don’t be a slug, get a job, quit gossiping, stay away from promiscuous women, tell the truth, pick good friends, …

Wisdom literature offers us a glimpse of who we were meant to be and the kind of life that we were meant to experience.

            They are extremely practical, feet-on-the-ground type of truths. For some, they are often almost too practical to be ‘spiritual’.

            We keep desiring the ethereal (other-worldly) and the mysterious, while God keeps holding out wisdom.

● Wisdom, life centered in God, sees our choices- the way we actually order and conduct our lives, as the most real thing about us; the most ‘spiritual’ thing we can do.

            It means that all of the things that we consider “spiritual” are futile if they are not producing the right kind of life.

● In fact, Jesus said that, “Wisdom is proven right by her actions” (Matthew 11:19).

So, life is, for all of us, about this progressive transformation from ‘folly’ (foolishness) to ‘wisdom’.

                That is a wonderfully hopeful statement. It means that the life that we long for is available to us now. It doesn’t mean that we will somehow be delivered from the painful consequences of our self-destructive, self-defeating past choices, but it does mean that those choices no longer need to define us or limit who we are becoming.

1:2 : The word for wisdom most often used in the OT is Chokmah (‘hōk-mah’) and it is used to describe someone who is skilled or proficient in their area of expertise. They know how to use the tools in order to realize an expected outcome.

            Skillful-living is not like rhythm—you either have it or you don’t. Skill is something we are able to attain with rightful practice.

If wisdom is the skill, then discipline is the ‘order’ or ‘training’ which informs and forms our lives and pre-determines who we are becoming.

Proverbs 10:17 “The road to life is a disciplined life; ignore correction and you’re lost for good.”

● Discipline or the “ordered-life” (less of a negative connotation) is the necessary companion of wisdom.

To ignore discipline (ordered life) is to simply let life happen to you. It’s the declaration that you are content with the way things are (stretchy pants: declaring to the world, “I give up”) or, you’re convinced that there is very little you can do to alter your situation.

Wisdom allows you the capacity to carefully distinguish between your options and make the best possible choice.

The really interesting thing about choices… they seem insignificant enough to ignore, but big enough to alter your life forever.

I have discovered that God values an “orderly approach” to life.

            Not one that is rigid and inflexible, but one that is intentional and purposeful. It is that order that prevents our desires from becoming merely good intentions. It’s what causes you to set the alarm, or make the time to develop the relationship, etc. In essence, it is pre-determined obedience.

1:3: Proceeds to describe how the orderly-life will manifest itself… “it will help them do what is right, just and fair.”

Right- means, ‘conforming to a standard’ (Deut.25:15 uses the word to describe scales that are honest). So, living wisely means developing an approach to life which is being formed around the desires of God.

Just- that which is determined to set things in order. In all of our lives, in every situation, we are either helping to establish order (set things right) or we are contributing to the chaos.

Fair- ‘equitable’, ‘pleasing’, ‘straight’, ‘level’, ‘a peaceful arrangement’.  We may not exactly know how to define wisdom, but we all know it when we see it.

● Notice, these are all relational terms. They are not merely about some arbitrary rules or expectations, but they concern themselves with how we relate to God and how that affects the way we are with each other.

Wisdom is depicted as being available and necessary no matter where you are in the developmental process.

            1:4 “simple”- naïve; one who is gullible (believes anything) or easily enticed.

● Naiveté (inability to make the connection) is what allows you to play ‘peek-a-boo’ with your baby for hours on end because they can’t understand how you keep disappearing behind your hands (or blanket). If you are still able to play that game with your (14) year-old, and they still don’t get it, something’s wrong!

● Solomon addresses the “young”, or the “immature”; those who are learning and growing in their capacity to make the connection and even suggests that at no point in our lives will we have accumulated all of the wisdom that we need. There’s even something more to learn for the “wise”.

The imagery involved is knowing how to “steer” (guidance) your life. The word “guidance”- literally means, “to bind” (rope, cord). It depicts the rope-pulling that sailors do to guide, or steer a ship; it’s keeping it on a predetermined course.

Proverbs 22:3 “A prudent person foresees danger and takes precautions. The simpleton goes blindly on and suffers the consequences.”

● James, the NT wisdom book, reminds us that at the center of foolishness is deception and deception involves ‘not seeing’ what’s really there!

● James 1:12-18: “enticed”- lit. means ‘to bait a hook’. We often refer to them as ‘lures’. In order to draw us out (lure us), the bait must:  appear real and we must be convinced that it will be safe to take it.

My assumption is that no fish grabs the lure thinking that it’s just some tasteless, rubbery mass with a jagged piece of metal woven through it. No animal deliberately walks into a trap.

Wisdom lets you see past the façade to what’s really there.

Proverbs 1:17 “If a bird sees a trap being set, it knows to stay away.”

We become most vulnerable when we disconnect our current circumstances from our own foolish choices.

            When you disconnect your circumstances from your choices, you essentially forfeit the ability to live well and destine yourself to a cycle of foolishness.

● It begins with being willing to admit that, in most cases, somewhere along the line, it was our own foolish decisions that are responsible for our predicament.

● If you don’t know “how this happened to you”, how will you ever prevent it from happening again?

When we fail to make the connection, (2) things are inevitable: 1) we abdicate all sense of personal responsibility, 2) we will need to find someone to blame.

Wisdom suggests that you don’t have to learn everything the hard way.

“Experience is the best teacher.” While it is true that it is possible to gain wisdom through experience, it’s not inevitable. But, here’s what is: “pain”.

Anyone ever made the same mistake or done the same stupid thing over and over again?

● I guess such an approach is based on some defective assumptions:

First, that simply having made a mess of your life previously ensures both that you learned something from it and it will never happen again. Solomon’s wisdom in one season of his life was no guarantee of living well in the future.

            Secondly, believing that we can only learn from our own experience seemingly invalidates a host of historical instruction.

            Thirdly, is the assumption that we will live to tell about it!

Wisdom is not just about learning the hard way, but about actually affecting the quality of our future choices so that we might avoid the damage.

Proverbs 15:10 “It’s a school of hard knocks for those who leave God’s path, a dead-end street for those who hate God’s rules”

● It means helping you extract wisdom from some experiences and gaining wisdom by avoiding some experiences all-together.

Wisdom doesn’t just tell us what to do, but helps us see the connection between our heart, our choices and the outcome of our lives.